If you feel you do not fit into the System, if you’re going to school, have gone to school or are struggling with your current job, and don’t find joy in what you’re doing – remember that many people feel the same way.
If you lack a deeper understanding, the freedom to do what you want and to find ways to earn your own income, you are not alone in that either.
Not all of us are like the rest
We are living in a complex world. It’s really beyond what most people can comprehend. And therefore, many people generally choose to look away from the depth and the greatness of our existence.
However, not everyone is like this. Those who actually want to learn more and to know what’s really going on will reach new heights in life. These people are, in fact, those who go on to become motivators and mentors. If you are such a person, this is something you should think about.
After we are born, we grow up and walk the path of life the way we are told we should. Without further ado, we follow neatly along with everyone else, all the way until we feel that something is off, that we cannot quite keep up. There may be several reasons for this.
Those “wounded healers” with a rough past
You may come from an unfortunate background with a tiring childhood, where your parents or other adults are the reason why you now experience the world as you do. Perhaps you have been through experiences and events that have diminished your joy, your development and your capacity to keep up with life. Or you may simply be one of many who just don’t fit into the traditional way of life, of building your career or success the way you have been told. Meaning, joy, and success aren’t the same for you as for everyone else.
Many individuals on this earth have a somewhat different design and behavior from ‘most people.’ Some of us have a stronger connection to life, nature, our origins, the universe, and ways of leading our daily lives, than those around us.
Therefore many people like us are struggling, perhaps in combination with our childhoods or other experiences. Or by following the school system and simply
adapting to 9-to-4 jobs. Maybe you are already done with your years of school and education but haven’t been able to get a job. Or you do have a job, but you don’t thrive, and something is missing in your life.
Here are 11 reasons why you don’t fit into the system, and what alternatives you’ve got.
11 Reasons why you’re an outsider
- You have a different outlook on life than most people around you
- You didn’t quite understand why you should learn what you were told at school
- You come from an unstable and tiring childhood or background
- You don’t feel like you “match” most people, and miss like-minded people
- You connect more to the Universe and a deeper meaning
- You feel that other people don’t see or understand your qualities
- You have great dreams and visions that school couldn’t help you with
- You want freedom and would rather build up your own income from home
- You get the feeling that it’s not your first time here on earth
- You hide behind acting and are introverted, but you know that you have qualities
- You want to be useful and to follow your dream, but don’t know how
We’re all different and represent uniqueness -even the Conventionals
Human beings are extremely different from each other. And we should be. The problem is just that society and the norms we are subject to aren’t really adapting.
So what are your alternatives when you don’t fit into the flock of sheep , but you KNOW that you have desires, talents, and dreams?
The most important thing to know and understand is that you’re NOT alone in being different. Being an outsider, weird, special or whatever else others might consider you. You may have heard of Steve Jobs?
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He was the legend who started Apple and is considered one of the world’s greatest business owners and a builder of great things. What kind of education did this man take before he started Apple Computer?
He began studying, but quit after three months and ended up in an entirely different class where he learned Japanese calligraphy art.
What defines you from today onwards is FULLY and ENTIRELY decided by what you think of yourself, what you think is possible, and what you decide on! If someone tells you differently, consider analyzing how far they’ve come in their own lives.
Here are 11 methods and alternatives for your Success
These 11 points correspond to the previous eleven points for reasons why you are different. Here are 11 methods and alternatives for your Success.
You have a different outlook on life than most people around you
Keep doing that, but keep to yourself until you have developed a solid foundation of confidence and balance in life.
You didn’t quite understand why you should learn what you were told at school
This applies to many. It doesn’t mean that you WON’T learn anything, but that you chose to follow knowledge you are passionate about. Related to who YOU are.
You come from an unstable and tiring childhood or background
This is normal and quite OK. But don’t use it as an excuse or a security blanket to avoid taking responsibility for becoming who you really want to be in life.
You don’t feel like you “match” most people, and miss like-minded people
This is very good! Keep being who you are, and cultivate what you are passionate about and believe in without hiding it. This way you’ll attract like-minded people.
You connect more to the Universe and a deeper meaning
This is one of your greatest qualities. Keep this up and dive into what you are attracted to. If you keep doing this you will become a mentor.
You feel that other people don’t see or understand your qualities
This is actually your own fault. It’s not a criticism, but most likely you radiate uncertainty and choose not to talk, show, and communicate who you really want to be. This is the result; people around you don’t see you for who you really are.
You have great dreams and visions that school couldn’t help you with
Many people have done this throughout history. It doesn’t need to stop you at all. School is unfortunately not very well suited to geniuses, dreamers, and smart people in your format. Pursue your own learning. Everything is available on the Internet, and there are plenty of free courses and education portals online.
You want freedom and would rather build up your own income from home
The world is changing enormously, and this topic becomes increasingly popular. More and more people want this freedom, and it is easier than ever to build your own income. You don’t need any education for it. And it is extremely cheap to get started. Use the Internet and find a mentor.
You get the feeling that it’s not your first time here on earth
Quite a lot of people on this planet feel the same way. Some KNOW that they’ve had several lives. And in some cultures, this is a given. You are right, and that’s why you’ve got the feeling of having had former lives. If you want to find out more about this, there are methods for this, too. There is nothing special about feeling like you’ve had a former life. What is special is that not more people acknowledge it.
You hide behind acting and are introverted, but you know that you have qualities
Perhaps you know that many struggles with this. In a world where the norms of society rule, at times brutally, it’s not easy being the one standing up for their own beliefs, insights, or true personality. Even towards the closest family at times. The important thing is to mentally begin focusing on what YOU are worth, and that your personality has the RIGHT to be free in whoever you want to be. Start meditating, find a mentor, and read or watch ONLY motivational books or videos.
You want to be useful and to follow your dream, but don’t know how
The first thing you need to do is to change your focus and mindset and to start using methods and techniques to find your way. Search the Internet. Find a mentor or a guide. Plan, write things down and make your wish clear and concise. For many people, the first step will be only to FIND the goal. You need to get out of your own head by talking to someone about what you desire. This person probably won’t have all the answers, but will give you small indications and guiding methods that you can follow.
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The importance of mindset and guidance
Out in the great wide world, we often observe celebrities, rich people and other big names that we admire. Let us ignore politicians, as the acts of the play that they perform isn’t very impressive.
Instead, there are quite a few impressive and motivational personalities around the world worth following. Many rich and wealthy people may be considered pompous, repulsive, and nasty. Even if they’re actually quite normal, honest, hard-working people you would have enjoyed knowing.
Do you think that these people started out with a bag of money in their hands, which later increased their fortunes? Doubtful. Many of these personalities have developed a mindset that has caused them to achieve their goals and dreams. And most great personalities that you read about, who have done a great deal of work, all say that a mentor or guide has been an incredibly important part of their success.
People who achieve great things, whether it is your neighbor or a well-known media personality, have a “mindset” which ensures that they don’t give up. They focus so intensely on their goals that it is impossible for them not to become a reality. Are these people so different from you? Do they have a different type of brain in their bodies than you have?
Is it possible for you to think the same thoughts as these motivational and exciting people?
Most likely it is. The only thing you need to do is to learn the methods and ensure that you are positively and regularly influenced by a mentor who shows you the way, and makes you responsible for finishing.
What’s really my background?
Nice of you to ask. I’ll give you a lightning quick summary.
My name is Johnny. And I come from a shitty background. My childhood was unstable and included 32 relocations between various cities. These included living in a tent, and in a motel together with mum and my two siblings. After a tiresome primary education, which I barely finished, I distanced myself from mum and her drinking habits and moved in with my stepfather number 5. Later, after he moved to town, I finally I got the freedom to live on my own and started my life in an old house in the countryside together with my dog.
I completed two years at the Noroff Institute in Arendal, Norway. An inept school where I was more teacher than a student at times. During the third year here I had my own office, and I started getting my own jobs as a web designer.
After my third job as an employee, all lasting for several years each, I chose to quit something I couldn’t enjoy and focus fully on my own business. Since then, I have built it up through immense amounts of work.
And after 17 years of martial arts, with Taekwon-Do as my style, I have been a trainer for 15 of these years. My test for 1. Dan black belt was May 14, 2001.
I now spend a lot of time on mentoring/coaching programs where I help people break out of bad jobs and a terrible school system. My program contains holistic mental and practical learning, together with learning methods for those of you who want independence and freedom with your own income.
Meditation, the right mindset, clean eating, and inspiring sources of motivation is the driving force behind this lifestyle.
If I can live my life as I do now, you can too!
This is my life now. I transform, I modify.
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